Gay Marriage and the Cheney Sisters
What constitutes an attack on the family?

Liz (left) and Mary Cheney


Dennis Prager

There are individual haters on the right and individual haters on the left. But there is no large-scale hatred in the United States of America today that compares with the hatred of the Left for the Right. Whereas the Right regards the Left as wrong — even destructively wrong — the Left regards all those on the right as evil: “Sexist,” “intolerant,” “xenophobic,” “homophobic,” “Islamophobic,” “racist,” “bigoted” are typical descriptions of the Right made by the most respected names on the left. This hatred is what enabled MSNBC’s Martin Bashir to broadcast — reading from a teleprompter, meaning that it was not spontaneous — that Sarah Palin deserves to have someone defecate and urinate into her mouth. (He later offered an apology; he has not been fired.)

But among all of the Left’s hatreds, none compares with its hatred of anyone who believes that marriage should remain defined as the union of a man and a woman. The Left believes anyone, or any business, that supports the only gender-based definition of marriage that has ever existed should be politically, personally, and economically destroyed. Recall, for example, the Left’s attempt to drive out of business a restaurant in Los Angeles because one of its employees donated $100 to California’s Proposition 8, the Left’s boycott of Chick-fil-A, and the Left’s vicious attacks on the Mormon Church.

This greatest of contemporary American hatreds expressed itself again in the last two weeks after Liz Cheney, running for the Republican nomination for U.S. senator from Wyoming, said that she believes in the traditional definition of marriage.

The comment would have probably gone almost universally unreported were it not for a Facebook post written by Heather Poe, the woman who is married to Liz’s lesbian sister, Mary Cheney:

Liz has been a guest in our home, has spent time and shared holidays with our children, and when Mary and I got married in 2012 — she didn’t hesitate to tell us how happy she was for us. To have her now say she doesn’t support our right to marry is offensive to say the least.

Mary Cheney shared the message on her own Facebook page, adding, “Liz — this isn’t just an issue on which we disagree — you’re just wrong — and on the wrong side of history.”

This triggered a tsunami of left-wing hate against Liz.

New York Times columnist Frank Bruni:

Isn’t there a tradition of close-knit family members’ taking care not to wound one another? . . . Liz and Mary aren’t speaking to each other now, and there’s a long shadow over the Cheneys’ holiday get-togethers. Is any political office worth that? . . . I’m imagining her awkwardness the next time that she goes to hug or kiss them (and I’m assuming that she’s a hugger or kisser, which may be a leap).

New York Times columnist Maureen Dowd:

“The spectacle of Liz, Dick and Lynne throwing Mary Cheney and her wife, Heather Poe, and their two children under the campaign bus. . . . Dick’s Secret Service code name was once ‘Backseat.’ Liz’s should be ‘Backstab.’”

Washington Post columnist Eugene Robinson:

Liz Cheney is also the sort of person who would not only throw her sister under the bus but also effectively do the same to her sister’s young son and daughter. . . . The Cheney sisters, once extremely close, reportedly haven’t spoken since the summer. What price political ambition?


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