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Dorwan Stoddard, RIP
An overlooked story of heroism

By Matthew Shaffer


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Dorwan Stoddard and his wife, Mavanell, grew up together as friends in Tucson, and were high-school sweethearts in the 1950s. The two parted, moved away, and married others. But 15 years ago, having survived the death of their spouses, the two were reunited — and then married — in their hometown.

When Jared Loughner began firing on the crowd gathered around Rep. Gabrielle Gifford at the Safeway supermarket in Tucson on Saturday, Mavanell thought the sounds came from firecrackers. Dorwan knew otherwise and quickly pulled his wife to the ground and threw himself over her. Mavy — as she is known to her friends — was hit three times in the legs, and is now in stable condition and expected to survive. Dorwan was shot, fatally, through the head, at the age of 76. Dorwan was memorialized at the Mountain Avenue Church of Christ — a small Tucson-area church where he and Mavy had worshipped and served — on Sunday.

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Trading his life for his wife’s was Dorwan’s final act, after which he could manage no final words. Rev. Mike Nowak, the pastor of Mountain Avenue Church of Christ, visited Mavy at the University Medical Center, to which she and Dorwan were both rushed, and she spoke about the aftermath of the attack: “She talked to him for ten minutes as he breathed heavily. He never talked back to her.”

In pictures, Dorwan typically wears a bolo tie, a white cowboy hat, and a graying beard, and keeps his arm firmly around his wife. He had retired from a career as a construction worker, and had since freely employed his skills repairing and rebuilding their church. A sign for “Dory’s Room” — styled after his affectionate nickname — marks one of his own creations, during the construction of which he fell off a high ladder. Against church members’ expectations, Dorwan survived the fall, but he needed 17 stents.

Dorwan and Mavy led the church’s “benevolence committee,” a group devoted to helping the poor. The Stoddards helped care for sick church members and provided transportation for those who needed it. Several friends and church members praised their work on the committee as Christian charity. The couple didn’t just write checks; they sought out those in need, listened to their problems, and offered their friendship as well as their financial support. Several people stood up at the funeral services to speak of how Dorwan had helped them. Kat Joplin said she had been homeless until the Stoddards helped her and her husband get off the streets, into a motel room, and eventually, onto a payroll. The Joplins even stayed at the Stoddard’s own home for a time.

Friends described Dorwan as an enthusiastic Arizona Wildcats fan, and pictures show Dorwan at the piano at a church picnic.

Nowak said that Mavy credits Dorwan with saving her life, and had joked from her hospital bed that “Dory will never have to worry about another stent again.”  Nowak described their relationship for KGU9: “They were inseparable. You saw one and you knew the other one wasn’t far behind. That will be a whole other life for her, so I’m afraid it will hit her harder down the road.”

Dory and Mavy “didn’t write any books. There are no streets named after them. There is no monument to them, but their impact in the community of Tucson will last a lifetime,” Nowak said.

Dorwan Stoddard is survived by two sons, four stepdaughters, and his wife.

— Matthew Shaffer is a William F. Buckley fellow at the National Review Institute.

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   01/10/11 16:07

Thanks for highlighting in true journalistic manner a modern-day hero. And thanks for writing about his and his wife's life and legacy as true believers. Condolences to the Dorwan Stoddard family - see you on the other side, Dorwan!

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   01/10/11 16:43

I had read in an article of his taking the hit to protect his wife, which touched my heart. This just deepens it more so. Big time thanks for posting this.

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Doyle
   01/10/11 20:35

If all Christian people lived the way this couple did life would be very different in our communities. He is a good example of love and unselfish regard for his loved ones. I pray to have the same courage if placed in a similar situation. Psalm 116:15 sums up a Christians' goal. "Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints."

Thanks for reminding me how to live.

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   01/10/11 21:09

Thank you for a story of a real hero. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family if Mr. Stoddard,

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xsgtdanusmc
   01/10/11 21:45

"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,"

Ephesians 5:25

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   01/10/11 21:50

A truly humbling story, bringing to mind John 15:13:

"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends"

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STCopper
   01/10/11 22:31

A touching story that brought tears to my eyes and makes me remember the words of our Lord, Jesus Christ, John 15:13 "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends."

May God keep his soul.

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Occam's Tool
   01/10/11 22:58
Jake F
   01/10/11 23:01

God rest his soul!

For me he's the part that makes America worth going on for even despite these horrible problems we have.

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Mr. D
   01/10/11 23:09

"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends." - John 15:13
Truly heroic.

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ekfox
   01/10/11 23:37

That was a beautiful and inspirational piece about real agape love.

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   01/10/11 23:37

This is a wonderful story. How evil is the media's 'blame game,' and how ironic and sad is their ghoulish focus on every quirk of that nameless (as far as I am concerned) madman; while we learn so much less about wonderful old-fashioned Christian Americans like the Stoddards.

Thank you.

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joel de la fuente
   01/10/11 23:51

mr. Stoddard was a great man. i didn't know hi, but, i praise him for his ultimate sacrifice for the wo,an he loved. we men should all hope to live such a wonderful example of what love is. We should all strive to live our lives as the Stoddards did. we a human beings, lost a great man! R.I.P. Mr. Dorwan Stoddard. God be with you!

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Michael Holt
   01/10/11 23:54

Better to live for the honor given by the King to His faithful than every honor that can be won from men! "well done" indeed!

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Samuel af Ugglas
   01/11/11 02:19

Stories like these make us from a distance to have great hopes for America. Condolences to the family.
By the way, what did the "Law" do to prevent the massacre, afterwards orating on Television, was cheap!

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Ken Marshall
   01/11/11 04:27

Please forward this example of good, factual and solid journalism to Paul Krugman of the New York Times. He needs it.

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DeborahD
   01/11/11 05:22

"...by their fruits ye shall know them.'' In all of the sickening finger pointing in the media, true Christian brotherhood in the face of terror seems to always be lost. Thank you for finding one of the many stories of love inside this awful event brought on by the insanity in this young man's head.

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Valerie
   01/11/11 11:12

A beautifully written eulogy. Thank you.
If all people, regardless of their religion, were as selfless, yes, we would all be in a much better state.
Condolences to all who lost someone in this tragedy.

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Jason Goldtrap
   01/11/11 12:27

"Rev. Mike Nowak, the pastor of Mountain Avenue Church of Christ" to clarify, the Churches of Christ usually does not have pastors and Mr. Nowak would agree that only God can be reverend.

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Floyd
   01/11/11 14:42

Indeed, events such as this saddens the heart, but glad-ins the soul. Would that we could all be such a man for this
wonderful expression of true faith.
We all can pray for the comfort of the Stoddard family but especially for
Mavy's sad and desperate days that she must face in theses coming days.
May God's loving hands comfort her.

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