Sometimes the most radical ideas are the most sensible (and vice versa). That’s certainly the case with the recent decision by John Garvey, president of the Catholic University of America (CUA) in Washington, D.C., to phase out co-ed dorms and return to single-sex residence halls.
Garvey presented a fairly practical case for the move: As at many an American college, there is a drinking problem at Catholic University. Garvey cites Christopher Kaczor, a professor of philosophy at Loyola Marymount University in Los Angeles, who puts it this way:
Co-ed living creates a “party” expectation that students fulfill. College males want to get females to drink more, to facilitate hookups. College men themselves drink more as “liquid courage” to approach women and as part of the process of encouraging female drinking (for instance, with drinking games). In order to demonstrate “equality” with male students and so as not to seem prudish, college females drink more than they otherwise would. Single-sex residences reduce this binge-drinking dynamic.
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Single-sex dorms also, as you might expect, offer a corrective to the current campus hookup culture. A 2009 study in The Journal of American College Health found that students in co-ed dorms have more sex and more partners — and are “more than twice as likely as students in gender-specific housing to indicate that they had had 3 or more sexual partners in the last year.”
And, if you want to get even more practical, W. Bradford Wilcox, director of the National Marriage Project at the University of Virginia, points out: “Needless to say, binge drinking and casual sex tend to distract students from their studies. For instance, young women who engage in such activities are more likely to be depressed, and tend to do poorly when they get distracted by drinking and sex.”
Absolutely sensible. And so, of course, given our litigious age, CUA may be taken to court for its decision. An unneighborly professor at nearby George Washington University says he plans to sue, complaining that the return to single-sex dorms would constitute sexual discrimination.
“I think there are probably plenty of well-meaning folks out there who want the goods — less hooking up, less drinking — but believe heartily that any goods like that ought to be entirely an act of will, completely volitional amid the options to choose otherwise,” says Mark Regnerus, co-author of the book Premarital Sex in America.
He is “not really surprised” by the lawsuit threat. “To some, anything like this is a signal of a ‘return’ of sorts to a past that its antagonists find stifling, constraining, etc. . . . They fail to realize that people are very much social creatures in their decision-making, and that putting up some reasonable barriers like this one can be helpful toward reaching the goals they claim to want.”
In New York City’s SoHo, young people have been gathering Tuesday nights this summer to discuss Pope John Paul II’s Love and Responsibility, using an almost workbook-like text. They are twentysomethings looking for an alternative to the culture of utilitarianism around them. They want neither to be used nor to use others — for sex or anything else. They see the inherent dignity of the human person and want to treat that, in themselves and others, with respect. They want to challenge themselves and expect more. The group meets in the courtyard of a closed Catholic school. But Old St. Patrick’s has become a new school for a culture wanting more.
And it’s not quite a turning back of the clock. The sessions, which break off into discussion groups, meet people where they are. Good-looking, talented, well-dressed, many of them probably cultural creators, this crowd tends to fit in well in the trendy neighborhood. But they want to pursue their success within the norms of eternity; they want their every action to have a greater purpose and love. They don’t just talk about love and feelings, and they don’t want to get drunk for courage. They want to know how to truly have integrity in a well-integrated life — successes and failures and all.
As for the lawsuit, in a memo prepared by the Alliance Defense Fund for the Cardinal Newman Society, attorney Dale Schowengerdt writes: “Catholic colleges should not feel compelled to maintain co-ed dorms simply because a lone attorney in D.C. is threatening to sue. No court has ever held that a college must maintain co-ed dorms. And based on well-established law, it is very unlikely that a court would do so.”
“The sexual revolution has lowered the price of sex,” notes Jennifer Roback Morse, author of Love and Economics, “so that it is harder for women to refuse, even good, well-brought-up young women who want to refuse. CUA’s move will create a less toxic environment for women, making it easier for them to resist the pressure for sexual activity. This in turn can create space for young adults to cultivate other, non-sexual aspects of relationship and friendship.” This is the topic of Regnerus’s book, and it’s what is driving the real experts, those young people in SoHo, to a pope who died when many of them were still teenagers.
It’s not “No sex, please, we’re Catholic.” And it’s certainly not an exercise in discrimination. It’s about human dignity. Repair work our culture needs. The Carrie Bradshaws of this generation don’t think their Manolos are made for walking from hookup to hookup. But they also need a little encouragement, the gals and guys alike. John Garvey answers that generational cry for help with good ol’ common sense. And it happens to be an appropriate conversation starter for a lesson in sexual integrity. CUA certainly has the name to be a leader there. And now it has made a practical move in that direction that’s worth a prayer and freedom from a nonsense lawsuit.
— Kathryn Jean Lopez is editor-at-large of National Review Online. This column is available exclusively through United Media.
The contention that single-sex college dorms somehow constitute a form of sex discrimination is either fatuous or pernicious -- probably both. It's one of the innumerable prices we pay for allowing our culture to degenerate into a pornographer's dream, but what's a nightmare for the rest of us.
Hard to feel too sorry for Catholic universities, though -- with only a handful of outstanding and robust exceptions, they've been decatholicizing themselves for decades. Unoriginal, but true: One reaps what one sows.
It is very important, apparently, to keep legal adults from having sex.
It doesn't matter who is, or who is not, paying for school--college students are legal adults; and there are many of them putting themselves through school. Regardless, as adults they are entitled to make stupid and immoral choices.
Gabriel, you miss the point entirely. It is not an effort to prevent sex, it an effort to prevent mindless, uneducated, unhealthy behavior. The purpose of an university is to educate - regardless of who's paying. The effort is an attempt to further that education my removing impediments to uninformed, self-destructive behavior.
They are entitled to make stupid choices but the university is not required to facilitate those choices.
What does your comment have to do with single-sex dorms? Such dorms do not prevent students who want to have sex from having sex.
Single-sex dorms allow students of the opposite sex into each other's dorms during visiting hours. They just have hours when visitors of the opposite are not allowed. If one wants to have sex, they can have sex durning those visiting hours.
Or, maybe you can go some place special with that special someone. Given that they are adults they can also get an apartment off campus. CUA is not required to provide housing that CUA does not consider appropriate.
I wonder how people who think that single-sex dorms constitute sex discrimination view separate men's and women's (and girls' and boys') bathrooms, shower, rooms, locker rooms etc.? Logically they should be just as pro-unisex showers as they are pro-unisex dorms, but in practice most of them don't seem to be. Their unreasonable hypocrisy obviously makes their dorm stance seem less loony, but if they were ever challenged on the issue I wonder what they'd stammer out?
What standing does the nosey professor from GWU have to sue here? He has no interest in the matter and has certainly not suffered harm or a loss of any sort.
Exactly the question I was thinking. Then again, liberal Nosey Parkers never seem to need standing, unless it's up on an apple crate for peering over the neighbor's fence.
My thoughts, exactly. In fact, his inexplicable interest in preserving undergraduate coed dorm arrangements at a university where he doesn't even teach comes across as downright creepy.
Also, it is called The Catholic University, not the 'Anyone can come in and tell us how to run our School" University.
BYU has been doing all this, and more, since forever, and consequently is nowhere on the list of problem campuses. It's an approach that works consistently well in improving outcomes for college students, particularly women. It may not be as clever or daring or modern as whatever the progressive idea of the day is, but it works. And I don't really see the lawsuit going anywhere--it appears to be purely harassment.
Sure, it's absurd to claim a Catholic school shouldn't try to minimize drunken hookups, and must be held to make them as convenient as possible.
But I'd encourage a bit of perspective here. Read the actual lyrics of Carmina Burana. There is nothing new about such behavior in college students.
And the term "binge drinking" should be avoided at all costs. It's an absurd attempt -- like such attempts to redefine down "date rape" and "child abuse" -- to take a term which refers to something genuinely alarming, and make it refer to borderline, then normal, behavior. Thus child abuse, which everyone abhors, includes spankings; date rape becomes wholly undefined, whatever the accuser wants.
I think it's fairly obvious that this lawsuit isn't going anywhere. But the idea that single sex dorms will do anything to change student behavior is also pretty silly. (It's pretty obvious that the kinds of students who would choose to live in single-sex dorms are also less likely to drink or have sex, so the studies cited are clearly worthless.) Anyone who's ever been in a frat house knows that groups of young men or women don't have any qualms about binge drinking. And without fairly aggressive monitoring, there's not going to be any sleeping obstacle to students sleeping around. (Incidentally, in my experience students tend to seek out partners from other dorms.)
National Review is quite rightly critical of the way that American youth seem to be continually prolonging childhood and declining to take responsibility as adults. But apparently it's okay to treat adults like children if that means imposing your puritanical moral code upon them.
"But apparently it's okay to treat adults like children if that means imposing your puritanical moral code upon them."
You want there to be only one moral code -- yours.
It is mystifying to me that people who think themselves dedicated to choice and freedom don't want other people to be given an opportunity to choose a single-sex dorm -- or, indeed, to choose a college with the ambience created by single-sex dorms. What have you got against allowing people that choice?
"It is mystifying to me that people who think themselves dedicated to choice and freedom don't want other people to be given an opportunity to choose a single-sex dorm -- or, indeed, to choose a college with the ambience created by single-sex dorms."
I'm not sure why you think that I think a college shouldn't be allowed to offer single-sex dorms, or why students shouldn't be allowed to live in them. I do think it's a bizarre choice to make, and probably a poor one -- the real world is very much a co-ed place, and I think 18 year olds are probably ready to start facing that fact. (They're not very likely to be living in single-sex buildings once they graduate, after all.) By the same token, students (and everyone else) are just as free to flagellate themselves while reading St. Jerome as they are to get drunk and have sex. The students at Catholic have made it pretty clear which course they prefer, and I think it's unfortunate that the school is trying to compel them to do otherwise.
At BYU all housing is approved by the University and all housing is single sex unless it is married housing. If a young woman has her brother or father visiting, they are allowed only in the common area of the dorm or apartment. They may not use the bathroom in the apartment or enter into any private area of the apartment. They are not allowed to stay there past curfew and must find somewhere else to sleep. These rules have always existed there.