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Fidelity and the Presidency
History shows that adultery isn’t necessarily an indicator of governing ability.

By Victor Davis Hanson


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Newt Gingrich campaigns with his wife Callista in January 2012


The news media seem obsessed with the serial affairs of a younger Newt Gingrich back in the last century. The anger of his second of three wives mysteriously became national news on ABC’s Nightline on the eve of the South Carolina primary. Millions watched Mrs. Gingrich II complain that Newt and the present Mrs. Gingrich had done to her (while ill) just about the same thing that she and Newt had earlier done to Mrs. Gingrich I (while ill).

Do these marital dramas involving our leaders matter that much? At some point, does long-ago adultery earn a statute of limitations? Do we forgive a few, but not serial, transgressions? Do we really care to learn the back-and-forth, he said/she said details? And do leaders have to be exceptionally talented to atone for extremely poor marital behavior?

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There have been plenty of unfaithful presidents, a few who could not even suppress their libidos upon entering the White House. Long before Bill Clinton’s dalliances, John Kennedy, Franklin Roosevelt, and Warren Harding allegedly had been unfaithful to their first ladies.

Given the value of stable marriages to society, it would be nice to think that such moral failure in our presidential candidates would be a telltale warning of later flawed governance — and that anyone who cheated on a spouse would also somehow cheat the country. But the truth unfortunately is more complex. The extracurricular Clinton proved a better president than the faithful Jimmy Carter. The reckless Kennedy served more honestly than did the seemingly devoted Richard Nixon. And the two-timing FDR was considered more successful than the monogamous Herbert Hoover.

There are so many factors involved in both successful marriage and skilled leadership that it is impossible to isolate one trait — even one as critical as fidelity — as an absolute barometer of future success. Some of our most inspired civilian and military heroes — Charles Lindbergh, Dwight D. Eisenhower, George S. Patton, Martin Luther King Jr. — were rumored to have had relationships outside of marriage. New York City mayor Rudy Giuliani was courting his third wife while still married to his second wife when 9/11 occurred, and yet he proved steady and reliable in a way mayors more monogamous have not during lesser disasters.

Why, then, are the marriages and indiscretions of an ascendant Gingrich now such an issue, apparently bothering the media more than primary voters?

The media usually prefer liberal politicians. Washington’s newspaper editors kept quiet about JFK’s frolicking, a silence that became near-conspiratorial. The renegade tabloid National Enquirer alone had to pursue the sordid affair of presidential candidate John Edwards. Matt Drudge forced the mainstream media to follow up on the recurrent but ignored rumors of Bill Clinton’s dalliance with Monica Lewinsky in the Oval Office. The feeling of most in the media is: Why sidetrack a fellow progressive’s enlightened agenda for America over an occasional hormonal urge?

But conservatives should expect such extra scrutiny. Just as populist Democrats raise eyebrows when they cozy up to Wall Street one-percenters, so too does the party of traditional family values set a higher bar for marital fidelity — and so faces the greater wage of hypocrisy. We don’t expect Bill Clinton to preach about the sanctity and stability of marriage, but we often heard that sermon from a sanctimonious Gingrich.

We are now an electronically wired 24/7 nation of the Internet, cable news, Twitter, and Facebook, and sex is in our faces everywhere. In 1961, the old-boy newspaper guild could keep quiet JFK’s alleged rampant womanizing. Now, such a circle of silence eventually breaks down, and the lurid details seem all the more newsworthy. In a counterintuitive sense, the more dissolute Americans become, the more they hope that at least their presidents might resist the temptations of the modern world that they themselves cannot.

We all would like to think Gingrich’s long-ago adulteries must warn us that he would make a less reliable, more erratic president than the apparently faithful Mitt Romney, Rick Santorum, Ron Paul, or Barack Obama. But there seems little evidence from history that such a logical conclusion is always true — and none adduced so far by our biased media why it should be.

Maybe that’s why the voters of conservative South Carolina apparently did not think whom or how many times the mercurial Newt Gingrich has married mattered more than how he has so far debated and addressed the issues.

— Victor Davis Hanson is a classicist and historian at the Hoover Institution, Stanford University, and the author, most recently, of The End of Sparta, a novel about ancient freedom. © 2012 Tribune Media Services, Inc.

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innocentbystander
   01/26/12 00:18

Dr Hanson,

Fidelity matters sir. It matters.

Bill Clinton, John Kennedy, Franklin Roosevelt, and Warren Harding, we didn't elect these men knowing (ahead of time) the kind of men they were. We suspected, but didn't know.

It matters.

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Vivienne
   01/26/12 12:30

It matters.

Romney 2012

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Charles Homme
   01/26/12 12:56

And why does it matter?
And if it is so important how do do you rationalize the behavior of great men in history that have been planderers? These type of comments are why the "social" conservatives are a drag on the republicans. Why can't you just concentrate on limited government and fiscal responsibility?

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charles homme
   01/26/12 17:57

Sorry. I should really review what I write.

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   01/26/12 22:34

These type of comments are why the "social" conservatives are a drag on the republicans. Why can't you just concentrate on limited government and fiscal responsibility?

You're the drag on us, sir, but I think you will find us more than happy to concentrate on those matters once the same laws that protect you against murder also protect younger people, and once the redefinition of marriage movement has been smacked down. Meanwhile we walk and we chew gum.

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charles homme
   01/26/12 23:14

You prove my point. What next? A moronic push for "intelligent design" to be presented as a legitimate counter to evolution? There was a time when conservatives weren't bent on shoving their morality and religious beliefs down everyone elses throats.

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B72
   01/26/12 15:26

Actually. The USA has elected presidents whom they knew to have extramarital offspring.

It's just not as important as Leading the nation.

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   01/26/12 00:50

Not sure how persuasive picking random Presidents out for comparison happens to be. So Clinton was 'better' than Carter. Not a very high bar.

The point not addressed in your article is simple. A President swears an oath of loyalty to the Constitution before God (often with hand held on Bible). A man swears an oath of loyalty to his wife before God. Why would a man keep one but not the other.

Let me ask bluntly - if Bill Clinton was blackmailed by some foreign power, for an adultery not yet hitting the news, is there ANY reason to believe he would not have done whatever he could and whatever was necessary to stay in power and keep the adultery a secret.

And would we Americans ever know....

Seems to me that even in the question about a 'good' President (which of course is relative based on the political party of the one making the claim) we are back to supporting any sleazebag as long as he votes our way.

It's a shame.

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   01/26/12 02:09

Hanson's references to failed Presidents are particularly inapt. No one would contend that marital fidelity is sufficient for presidential success. No one proposes to nominate some random guy who happens to dote on his wife.

So how about supposedly successful adulterous Presidents? As it happens, I'm not too keen on any of the proven adulterers Hanson mentions. But it's certainly possible that an adulterer could be the best choice in a very bad field. The galling thing about the Gingrich fad is that Gingrich is a poor choice *even apart* from his adulteries and hypocrisies. If we are going to compromise and choose a liar, he at least ought to be a reliable, conservative liar.

This is not to say that I am a Romney fan, either. In the current field, I support Santorum. Failing him, I'm among those who dream of a brokered convention and a white knight. Failing that, and with great reluctance, I'll settle for Romney. Romney's marital fidelity happens to coexist with a personality more suited to the Presidency than that of the egomaniacal Gingrich. He is no less conservative, either.

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   01/26/12 06:23

Here's the way a lot of conservatives view this. Romney is lying to us about his ideology. Hes a moderate pretending to be conservative to win the primary then he'll run to the center to get elected and govern. That strategy isnt even ver well concealed. We know thats his plan. The sane crowd of consultants attempt this every election. Give the peasants their red neat if you must but then pivot back to "progressive" as soon as possible.

Ill take the honest conservative with the ex wife baggage.

All this other stuff is a smoke screen ...

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   01/26/12 10:56

Ill take the honest conservative with the ex wife baggage.

Where is that guy?

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Vivienne
   01/26/12 12:45

So Romney is lying about his ideology, But Gingrich is not? What part of Romney is lying?

Here's where I think Newt is a liar:
How is Newt a conservative if he supported Cap and Trade and was willing to go on video with Nancy Pelosi to pitch it? What part of him is conservative? The private part or the public part? Well we know privately he's not conservative...

Newt supported Dede Scozzafava in NY 23 who left the race and endorsed the Democrat! Hmm.

Newt demonizes the free market capitalism with which Romney has made a good living to provide for his family and contribute to his church.

Newt is as honest or dishonest as the next guy.

I don't have any illusions about changing your mind. Just hope you will see some truth and maybe accept it.

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   01/27/12 02:32

You can view it that way all you want, but you are wrong. Stop hurting the country with your nonsense.

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   01/26/12 07:46

I'm wholly with Hardcastle on this one. At this point I'd pull the lever for Santorum with a brokered convention that results -- somehow, miraculously -- with someone altogether different as my backup.

It's funny how in the Mitch Daniels talk, the chattering classes yearned for "an adult" to join the conversation. Santorum has (generally) taken the high road. And he united the three legs that traditionally make up our conservative coalition. Imperfect as he is, he would be my choice in the current field.

I especially like how he talks about bringing manufacturing back to America. Too often we just hear "those jobs just aren't coming back". But why? I'd like to have a candidate work to change that. We'd certainly get more of those "Reagan Democrats" with that sort of platform.

Having said all that, the Gingrich episode has revealed some mighty ugly truths about conservative media -- the disingenuousness and general lack of intellectual consistency and honesty in how they vet the candidates foremost among them.

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   01/26/12 08:11

I second the motion. I reject everything Santorum stands for, but he's a straight-up guy.

Just today, Newt had to walk back his lie that he proposed witnesses to rebut Marianne's "open marriage" story:

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Newt's a hypocrite, a liar, a scoundrel. His conversion to Catholicism is insincere and politically calculated. He's just a bad person, totally unworthy of the high honor of the presidency. He needs to go build Habitat for Humanity homes for the rest of his life or something like that. As Robert Welch said to Joseph McCarthy:

"If it were in my power to forgive you for your reckless cruelty, I will do so. I like to think I am a gentleman, but your forgiveness will have to come from someone other than me."

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   01/26/12 08:16

Coda:

A man writes a column about Gingrich, carefully refraining from endorsing him, while the sense of the column is clearly sympathetic to Gingrich.

What kind of man writes such a column?

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   01/26/12 08:56

Ex-Miss Gingrich stated "he MORE OR LESS asked for an open marriage."

Why is it that you insist on following the liberal - and Republican elite - tact of telling half truths and falsehoods as if they were the absolute truth? You can tell more about a man by the enemies he has than you can by the friends he keeps. Newt's enemies include some of the most despicable people and organizations in this nation – Nancy P., Republican/Democrat Elite, Mainstream Media.

The enemy of my enemy is my friend.

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   01/26/12 16:54

Where are you getting that from? Here's the relevant portion of the transcript of the ABC News interview with Brian Ross:

GINGRICH: You want me all to yourself. Callista doesn't care what I do.

BRIAN ROSS: What was he saying to you, you think?

GINGRICH: Oh, he was asking to have an open marriage and I refused.

Here's the link: External Link 

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 JEM
   01/26/12 09:16

A man trying to clearly identify why marital infidelity matters to one party but not the other, and who also is once again noting that the MSM has so little credibility with GOP voters that their manufactured outrage - which is all this is - no longer moves many people.

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   01/26/12 09:29

1. Contrary to your observation, Democrats do care about their candidates' marital infidelity. Not as much as I wish they would, but they do. I, for one, wanted Clinton to resign as soon as the lid blew off the Lewinsky scandal. I think he's done incalculable damage to our country.

2. What's worse -- not caring, or claiming to care and being hypocritical?

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