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Time: You Can’t Say No to Facebook

In its salute to Mark Zuckerberg, its “Person of the Year,” Time observes that the “bigger social networks get, the more pressure there is on everybody else to join them. . . . It’s going to get harder and harder to say no to Facebook and to the authentically wonderful things it brings, and the authentically awful things too.”

Electronic community has its virtues, but the morbid craving for it evident in the success of Facebook reveals the degree to which actual community has collapsed in much of the West. A multitude of causes have brought the civilization closer to Tocqueville’s prophecy of the last democratic man, shut up in “the solitude of his own heart,” but among these the war a number of our elites have waged against traditional town-square culture is surely not the least. Social planners have gradually eviscerated the agora sanctuaries which once brought people together in face-to-face community: they have replaced the rich artistic culture of the old market square with Le Corbusier–style functionality; they have marginalized its spiritual traditions; they have supplanted its charitable institutions with dehumanizing social bureaucracies; and they have made its schools, the transmitters of its ancient civic culture, ever more morally and culturally vacuous. Hannah Arendt warned that the social imagination which has largely superseded the civic imagination could well result in the “most sterile passivity history has ever known.” Yet even as the crumbling of the common culture of the marketplace has resulted in new forms of dejection and isolation, too many of our elites continue pathologically to insist on the virtues of the social approach. Which leaves us, alas, with Facebook.

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   12/15/10 10:56

I can say no to Facebook, and have. I opened an account back in the spring, figured out after a short time that it was truly the work of the devil (that's mostly a joke, just so's ya know!) and had my account deleted. Which it may or may not be...I haven't bothered to go check on it. Making this guy POY is bothersome. Didn't someone raise money for poor people, heal the sick, comfort the dying, heck, even adopt a dog from an animal shelter? Sheesh.

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ChrisZ
   12/15/10 11:05

"they have made its schools, the transmitters of its ancient civic culture, ever more morally and culturally vacuous"

This must rank as one of the most beautifully written lines, describing an ugly reality, which I have ever read. Thanks, Prof. Beran--and NR/NRO.

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 Dave
   12/15/10 11:31

I disagree with this criticism as it implies that the breakdown of ancient social structures was largely, let alone solely, the unintended (or intended) consequence of liberal social planning. There's plenty of blame to go around.

As surely as civilization killed the campfire tribe, the Industrial Revolution killed the "town square" long before Robert Moses ever did. The halcyon days of Norman Rockwell's happy street of neighbors was simply unable to compete with the cold efficiency of capitalism. By the 1950s, it was dead already, it just didn't know it yet.

Pick your culprit: mass production killing off local stores, industry demanding women in the workforce (and the resulting jobs empowering women to finally achieve independence from men), rising education & incomes enabling geographic mobility (why live on Main Street your entire life when you can move to Madison Avenue?), technology allowing foreign trade and commerce to flourish-- all did as much or more to eliminate the town square as did intentional social planning.

Now, I won't argue that liberal social planning didn't make many of these trends *worse*, but absent theological or secular totalitarianism denying women the opportunity to work, couples the freedom to divorce, children the ability to leave home for college, and businesses the freedom to relocate to lower-cost locales domestic or foreign, so it is impossible to believe that the town square model would ever survive modern capitalism (or the social upheavals of the world wars).

These challenges existed before the Left and the Right crafted solutions to them. That the Left's solutions were so often horribly ignorant of human nature and shortsighted is a justified criticism, but the Left didn't cause these problems, they exacerbated them.

To return to Facebook, I (and many others) argue that at worst, Facebook is a symptom of this cultural shift, not a cause of it. At best, however, Facebook and other social media is an attempt, however crude and novel and imperfect, to establish a new town square model to replace the old model that is gone for good. Human beings still need to connect with each other, tell stories, share jokes, gossip, etc. Thanks to a whole host of reasons, that opportunity to do so in many of our neighborhoods has disappeared, never to return. The question is, what replaces that in the information age? How do we still meet human needs when we can no longer have the old human structures?

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   12/15/10 11:33

Recommended reading: Isaac Asimov's "The Naked Sun." How long before "viewing" (interacting online) is socially acceptable while "seeing" (interacting in person) is not?

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BigJack
   12/15/10 11:34

Zuckerberg being the POY makes sense to me. Who would have thought that anything could dethrone pornography as king of the internet? Personally, I love Facebook. It's a great tool. It's enabled me to connect and reconnect with people, organizations, ministries and artists that I simply wouldn't have without it. In fact, most of my friends/family that don't use just end up out of the loop- for better or worse.

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George B
   12/15/10 12:22

Facebook has increased my real, in person social interaction with other people. It is an efficient tool for inviting people to meet for a drink after work or to enjoy a day at the lake on the weekend. I don't like all the work I have to do as a user to control who does and does not have access to things posted by and about me on Facebook, but on balance I'm glad I opened an account.

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AtheistConservative
   12/15/10 12:30

What is Facebook? Your friends join it, so you create an account. At first it's fun: you get to see witty updates and status and interesting links. Maybe you post a few of your own. But then you realize everybody says mostly the same things - your lefty friends post their lefty links, your righty friends post their righty links, the quiet friends post nothing. Everybody stops reading what everybody else posts, except maybe status updates. So for a while you spend a little time each day trying to think of a witty status update. But that becomes depressing - such a waste of time. So then everybody starts posting quotes. But the quotes just reflect the beliefs they already wore out. And then finally you realize you're just going through the tired motions of a vacuous waste of time, keeping your 'profile' up to date and witty and interesting has become a chore. So you stop updating. But you probably don't delete it, because someone might say something interesting ... eventually.

Facebook works for unconnected single youth, just like every other social medium. And that's about it.

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   12/15/10 12:43

Beran is always a joy to read. But count me as one who sees a "Person of the Year" Zuckerberg as more logical than a "Person of the Forevermore" Zuckerberg. True, Facebook is now in its heyday, but its contribution is one I'm hard-pressed to find truly lasting. You create a Facebook account; you Facebook-friend a current colleague; you do likewise to a long-lost friend; the two have nothing in common whatsoever -- how much common-denominator information can you communicate? Clive Thompson in Wired wrote well on this topic many months ago. Today, Facebook; yesterday, MySpace; tomorrow, who really knows?

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   12/15/10 13:02

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I agree, for the most part, with the writer of the above op-ed. I think Facebook has been a good tool to have to catch up with friends, make new friends and to stay in touch with family. I do, however, agree with another poster's complaint that eventually postings from some becomes quaint and pedestrian, but that just means some are serially addicted to FB, checking the page everyday. I recently stopped checking everyday and haven't been on for seriously for about a week.

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Ganelon
   12/15/10 13:08

Hogwash...

Facebook is simply a new avenue of communication and personal contact, made possible by the Internet and it's fundamental principle of Network.

All of us have had people that have passed through our lives. In the past, these people would be lost to us. The "analog" methods of human networking were simply not feasible to pursue most of these connections.

Now we have the Facebook as a new "digital" method of networking. It is more efficient and convenient... and it allows us to reconnect with the children we played with, the teachers who taught us and the family we moved away from.

Are these individual interactions profound? No.. but collectively I believe they are. If I post "Going to the Pumpkin Festival with the kids today" and my sisters and a few friends from grade school reply "Cool!" or "Have fun!", then is not my life uplifted?

If my sister posts pictures and video of the Christmas party at our Dad's house in Maryland, so I(down in Florida) can show my kids their grandpa is dressed as Santa... is that not a grand and worthy thing?

THAT is what Facebook facilitates. It isn't a degradation of society and community... it as a new creature that makes worthy things possible that never existed before.

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   12/15/10 14:12

If they were going to go irrelevant and politically correct, I think they should have picked "the bullied gay teen" as POY.

Notice how that "issue" exploded in lamestream media right before the election, and just about disappered afterwards? Classic distraction story. Makes liberals feel good about themselves and their moral superiority, while ignoring uncomfortable realities. Like making an Internet trend the POY instead of anything having to do with domestic or int'l politics.

In short, this is another clear sign that conservatism is ascendent this year!

The MSM wants you to look the other way . . . maybe rent that movie about Facebook (which probably has some commercial tie-in with the publishers of Time) . . .

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   12/15/10 14:50

I just used f/b to invite a bunch of my running buddies to an ad hoc Christmas party next week. Tell me how calling, emailing or snail-mailing 45 people individually is advantageous? We're spread out across a county that is nearly 2x the area of Rhode Island.

Technology is just an extension of the human mind and body.

A holiday benefit of f/b? I get fewer and fewer of those pretentious "Christmas Letters" every year!

I agree with a lot of the posts though, about the generic nature, how quickly it becomes a barrier to local friendships if you let it, and all the stereotypes. True, true. How is this different than the famous "water cooler" at work, or the cube farms or the cliques in every forum? Dell famously bought a company, and took all the employees' doors away in the office building. Humans are creatures of habit.

I love my family, but they all live 1,800 miles away. We talk *more* because of Facebook than we did before it came along...and it stitches in the gaps between the last time we talked allowing us to continue a conversation over weeks and months.

Downsides? Yes. Downfall of modern civilization? Hardly.

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   12/15/10 15:11

Hey! AtheistConservative! Get outta my room! It's like you've been looking over my shoulder for the last several months.

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   12/15/10 16:15

No wonder Time is dying (dead?). Not only is the MSM liberal, but they are often way behind the times. FB has been around for years. When my 70 year old dad has an account, it's not new. FB is already tired and the MSM is just catching on.

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 RJG
   12/15/10 17:32

This post suggests an almost total ignorance of the way the Facebook actually works. It's another means of communication, pure and simple. If Facebook has done anything to people's face to face interaction, it has increased it by offering people another way to keep in touch with each other. Seriously, these complaints about Facebook are like someone complaining about the invention of the telephone.

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Dear RJG
   10/09/11 21:52

I disagree with your statement. Many of us are sick and tired the isolation Facebook as brought on society. I find it very hard these days to meet friends face-to-face. I want to see a human face, not a computer! No form of technology can replace the warm and healing touch of a human had. Now, get off that darn computer and get back into humanity before Facebook kills you!

Rupertsland

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