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What It’s Like to Be in Love

On the subway, I was reading one of G. K. Chesterton’s Father Brown stories, “The Flying Stars,” and ran across one of those passages that make Chesterton worth the attention even of those who do not share his key theological or political views. The setting is an impromptu theatrical at a Boxing Day house party, and the boyfriend of the family’s daughter has taken charge of the entertainment:

He was supposed to be the clown, but he was really almost everything else, the author (so far as there was an author), the prompter, the scene-painter, the scene-shifter, and, above all, the orchestra. . . . Commonly he was a clever man, and he was inspired tonight with a wild omniscience, a folly wiser than the world, that which comes to a young man who has seen for an instant a particular expression on a particular face.

Honestly, this passage brought tears to my eyes, even though I had read the story more than once before — simply because it made real, emotionally, the way being in love transforms not only one’s view of the love-object, but also of oneself and of the whole world. To the person in love, the whole world seems to come into a brighter and clearer focus, and inspires a sense of omni-competence: Anything I didn’t do before, out of laziness or lack of motivation, I am now able to do, and want to do.

Chesterton does not theologize this passage, but I can’t help myself. St. John tells us that “God is love” — and is there not, in His attitude toward His creatures, the same sort of amour fou that the young man is possessed by in the story? And isn’t mysticism nothing but a glimpse, an inkling, a reflection, of precisely that sort of love? The perspective love brings is more powerful than that of pure reason. This is why many people over the past couple of centuries have objected to the word “Logos” to characterize God, and sought to de-Hellenize theology — purify it of Greek philosophical concepts — to get rid of the word. They intuit, correctly, that God is not “Word” in the sense of Professor Dryasdust and the cold syllogisms of purely human reason; they get the sense, in reading the works of too many theologians, that the latter have set many all-too-human limits on God. (This can be expressed as: “God is capable of more things than the volumes of Aquinas, Calvin, Barth, and the canon lawyers of various denominations might be willing to permit Him.” But who could put it better than Shakespeare: “There are more things in heaven and earth . . . than are dreamt of in your philosophy.”)

But “Logos” is quite appropriate if it’s understood in a broader way, to mean a reason deeper than ours, a reason not limited to the rules elaborated by our thinkers — a reason like that of the man in the story, with his “folly wiser than the world.” What looks like “folly to the Greeks,” a stumbling block to human reason, is, many of us believe, the Deepest Reason of all.

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   09/15/11 21:27

I do not doubt the depth of the feeling you movingly describe. As an agnostic, I believe that feeling is precisely what people of religious faith attempt to cultivate through their faith. By fixing the source of that positive emotion as an eternal, omnipotent, and just deity (and with whom you have a special relationship), one can safely ignore reason when it conflicts with religious teachings.

I mean no disrespect to anyone. I'm well aware of the Catholic - NR connection. I was raised in the Roman Catholic faith and have nothing but positive memories of my time learning in Catholic schools, attending church, participating as an altar server, etc. Even today, I think if everyone in the world lived as good Christians, the world would be a far better place. But there came a point where my critical faculties just could not come to terms with the dogma.

(Wow, my CAPTCHA is "bless you"!!! Is it a sign????)

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   09/16/11 00:12

Never understood why are religion and reason should be incompatible. I see them as complimentary. Also, your line of thinking comes from your belief<--- that nothing but reason guides us. In that regard, my faith and your lack of it are standing on the same foundation.

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   09/16/11 02:31

I agree with you. Reason enables us to conceptualize the infinite, and because we can do it, we should. It is kind of like climbing a mountain. Without reason there is no need. Why would a wolf climb a mountain?

Agnosticism is the principled position of any thinking man and flatly true: we can never know. I also like strong athiests and Pentacostals, both of whom take a stand and loudly proclaim it (the Pentacostals have better music). I also like literalists such as the Church of Christ (acapella, shesh), and Baptists who believe that everybody are saved. I took the Belief-O-Matic quiz and was told I should either be an Orthodox Jew or a Muslim. If I wanted to, I could say a few kind words about Catholics and Buddhists. It appears that my reason leads me to accept people pretty much as they are, which might be a reasonable approach to take.

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   09/16/11 11:51

Baptists believe everyone are saved? Perhaps you meant "...everyone is desired by God to be saved"

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   09/16/11 07:30

Yes. And in the very first Father Brown story, Brown says he knew another character was not a priest because "You attacked reason. It's bad theology".

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   09/16/11 01:24

Baines, I highly recommend Chesterton's "Orthodoxy" - I think you would enjoy it.

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 NK
   09/16/11 07:59

Baines--

you are an honest agnostic. I admire that. Best o' luck in reasoning out the universe. I went from being agnostic to a believer based on reason; reason and faith for me are inextricably intertwined. PS: my 'solve media' is "no haggle prices". ugh.

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   09/15/11 21:36

Don't see the significance of Chesterton.

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   09/16/11 01:23

Revo - Read Chesterton's "Orthodoxy" then revisit your assessment of him. He is absolutely wonderful.

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   09/15/11 21:37

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Discussing love once on his tv show, Bishop Sheen once read an excerpt from one of Chesterton's letters to his then fiancee, Frances!

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Jay Atkinson
   09/15/11 21:58

From the headline, I was expecting this to be about the press and Obama circa 2008-2009. Pleasantly surprised.

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Somerset
   09/15/11 22:00

Baines you might want to ponder what the chances of you receiving that particular Captcha might be? You may be done with God, but He obviously is not done with you.

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 Rook
   09/15/11 22:15

Everyone should read the Chesterton Father Brown stories, possibly the best-written mystery tales in the genre (though there is some unfortunate antisemitism in some). I love his essays as well, even though I often disagree with him! He used to write weekly for the Illustrated London News, and the tranquility of his work is astounding. Would that we had such today. Instead we get Paul Krugman and Kathleen Parker.

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MTK2
   09/15/11 23:04

"... make Chesterton worth the attention even of those who do not share his key theological or political views."

Agree. Hate the throwaway comment that extra effort is justified in this instance to pay attention to a writer who doesn't share one's views.

Kind of the point of reading. Why bother reading something you already know you agree with, other than the warm fuzzy feeling of seeing your thoughts on the page?

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Lillian Teresa
   09/15/11 23:46

Baines,

It is a Signal Grace. Remember?

Blessings,
Lillian Teresa

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   09/16/11 01:50

I strongly suspect that we are not getting the whole story here, and that this exaltative essay has more to it than a subway ride. In any case, I agree with the thesis, which is that reason is not a satisfying explanation for everything that I see and experience. There simply must be something else, something bigger and more mysterious. We seek out the answer, even though we realize that we will never, in the end, find it. For us, it is the quest for the answer that we will never reach that defines us.

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   09/16/11 02:16

...at the risk of bein' a stickler ('n pet peeve o' mine), yes, s/speare wrote it...but said by hamlet (to horatio)...as my minister often says, " text and context"...but nice lil anecdote...

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   09/16/11 02:28

A very thought-provoking article about a subject with hidden depths; although I would insist that love and reason are not only compatible, they are close kin.

I, too, have always loved the Father Brown stories; for is not this kind but relentless detective himself the very incarnation of both love and reason?

Nice job, Mr. Potemra.

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David Govett
   09/16/11 04:04

I wonder: Love is an electrochemical process in the human brain. What will happen when love pills become available, but there is no object to love? Will one become narcissistic?

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Owen Jones
   09/16/11 10:06

"Reason" in its classical and Patristic formulations does not equate with conceptualization, although certainly concepts and ideas are the result. It is rather a quality of perception.

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