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Just Say ‘No’

A Republican who will not stand up to the liberal media as a candidate will not stand up to the liberal media as president.

A profoundly instructive moment on this point occurred in Saturday night’s debate when Josh McElveen of WMUR-TV asked whether it ought to be legal for same-sex couples to adopt children.

The correct answer to this is: No. It was, is, and always will be wrong for any government to hand over in an adoption the custody of a child to a homosexual couple. A government that does so violates the God-given right of the child to be raised by a mother and father who respect (and intend to teach the child) those basic laws of morality that a homosexual couple — by the very fact that they are publicly cohabitating as homosexuals — are publicly flouting.

Now, that may seem a harsh answer to people whose moral sensibilities have been formulated by habitual exposure to broadcast television networks. But it is true.

Yet when McElveen put his question to Rick Santorum, Santorum failed to give a coherent answer. Santorum seemed to say — although his exact meaning was unclear — that although he wanted a constitutional amendment to define “marriage” as the union of one man and one woman, the question of same-sex adoptions was up to state governments to decide:

Well, this isn’t a federal issue, it’s a state issue, No. 1. The states can make that determination — and New Hampshire. My feeling is that this is an issue that should be dealt — I believe the issue of marriage itself is a federal issue, that we can’t have different laws with respect to marriage. We have to have one law. Marriage is, as Newt said, a foundational institution of our country, and we have to have a singular law with respect to that. We can’t have somebody married in one state and not married in another. If we were successful in establishing that, then this issue becomes moot. If we don’t have a federal law, I am certainly not going to have a federal law that bans adoption for gay couples when there are only gay couples in certain states. So this is a state issue, not a federal issue.

Mitt Romney, who has indicated the past that he does not oppose states’ legalizing same-sex adoption, gave a similarly incoherent answer to a similar question.

Diane Sawyer asked: “What would you say, sitting down in your living room, to a gay couple who say we simply want . . . gay people to form loving, committed, long-term relations. In human terms, what would you say to them?”

Romney responded:

Well, the answer is: That is a wonderful thing to do, and that there is every right for people in this country to form long-term, committed relationships with one another. That doesn’t mean that they have to call it marriage, or they have to receive the approval of the state in a marriage license, and so forth, for that to occur. There can be domestic-partnership benefits or a contractual relationship between two people, which would include, as Speaker Gingrich indicated, hospital visitation rights and the like. We can decide what kind of benefits we might associate with people who might form those kinds of relationships, state by state. But to say that marriage is something other than the relationship between a man and a woman, I think, is a mistake. And the reason for that is not that we want to discriminate against people or to suggest that gay couples are not just as loving and can’t also raise children well, but it is instead a recognition that for a society as a whole, the nation presumably will be better off if children are raised in a setting where there is a male and a female. And there are many cases where that is not possible — divorce, death, single parents, gay parents, and so forth — but for a society to say we want to encourage through the benefits that we associate with marriage people to form partnerships between men and women and then raise children, which we think that will be the ideal setting for them to be raised.

Newt Gingrich created a compelling moment when, following Santorum’s and Romney’s answers, he attacked the liberal media for putting Republican presidential candidates on the spot on same-sex adoption while not putting Democrats on the spot for forcing the Catholic church out of the adoption business in some jurisdictions because the Catholic church — in courageously defending the moral law and the innocence of children — refuses to cooperate in same-sex adoptions.

But I am a conservative journalist and I want all the Republican candidates to give a straight answer to the question liberal journalists asked them last night: Yes or no — in America, should government allow same-sex couples to adopt children?

Candidates who are afraid to say “no” to this fundamental question in a presidential campaign will be afraid to stand up to the liberal media on other profound questions if they are elected president.

— Terence P. Jeffrey is author of Control Freaks: 7 Ways Liberals Plan to Ruin Your Life.

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   01/08/12 08:23

Thanks for the post, Mr. Jeffrey. Of course the thousands-of-years-old tradition of adopting children out only to heterosexual married couples is correct. Whether or not we can get back to that as a country is another question. If Obama happens to win again in November, it will be a gigantic step in the wrong direction...

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   01/08/12 08:24

The only way out is through.

There is no way to finagle the marriage and adoption issues without going back and asserting that homosexuality is dysfunctional.

Once you concede that homosexuality is normal - you're already on the slippery slope.

We already know that "born that way" was a massive lie - no gay gene has been found. The "born that way" trope was used to promote PC victimhood and sidestep clear-eyed evaluation of actual behavior patterns in the gay community.

We already know from European studies that sanctioning gay "marriage" does not stop the compulsive infidelity that is typical of the gay lifestyle - it just dilutes the definition of marriage to include these open relationships.

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   01/08/12 08:25

Any candidate who gave Jeffreys' preferred answer would never get my vote. I'd throw my ballot away on a third party candidate first. And my guess is any GOP nominee who gave that answer would have a hard time getting more than 100 electoral votes.

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Jeff Gonzalez
   01/08/12 08:34

Yeah, too bad this field is pandering to an electorate concerned about fiscal responsibility, the end of Obamacare, and defending the nation. They should be telling the electorate what is important, which, apparently, is gay adoption.

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adame3aiojsadf
   01/08/12 08:35

Wow! So what exactly is the argument/logic that gets you to this statement?

"It was, is, and always will be wrong for any government to hand over in an adoption the custody of a child to a homosexual couple. "

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jdbuko
   01/08/12 08:38

"Candidates who are afraid to say “no” to this fundamental question in a presidential campaign will be afraid to stand up to the liberal media on other profound questions if they are elected president."

True enough, but this misses the fundamental truth that the candidate who says "no" will also not be elected president. Kind of a Catch-22.

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Jeffrey Collins
   01/08/12 08:44

While I'm sympathetic to your argument, I think it proves more than you realize.

While I'd certainly like to see all orphaned children end up with a mother and a father, there aren't that many adopting. You're argument would seem to foreclose the possibility of single people adopting as well.

In the last congregation I attended, one of the elders had a single daughter who had adopted two girls. I'm sure she intends to teach them about God's laws, but by you're reasoning it appears she shouldn't be allowed to do so.

At a minimum, it seems, the issues are far more complicated than you make them out to be.

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   01/08/12 08:48

What if they think the answer is yes? I didn't know all of them were necessarily against gay adoption.

The funny thing is if you look at polling data gay adoption is more popular than gay marriage, I think that is a little odd, if you are going to allow gays to adopt it would probably be better if they are allowed to be in a marriage or civil union.

I do agree that everything else being equal having a mother and father is probably the best situation to grow up in. It is fairly time tested way and gay adoption is a new concept. However sometimes the most ideal isn't always an available option, and all things are not always equal. I think having 2 parents is better than having one, even if they are of the same sex, and they should probably get priority over people who are single. Also, rather than gay couples using artificial insemination or whatever other methods some people find troubling to produce off-spring, I would rather have these couples adopt kids that are currently in need of a loving home.

And it is a states rights issue, and should stay that way. Conservatives should err on the side of federalism.

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   01/08/12 09:01

Stand up to the media? The question posed wasn't "everyone knows that allowing gay couples to adopt is a God-given right, don't you agree?" It was posed in a manner that allowed each candidate to answer as he ;thought appropriate.

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Truck
   01/08/12 09:03

This post is an excellent example of the tone-deaf bigotry that is making the GOP a party of elderly white people. More talk like this and President Obama cruises to re-election. You have no idea how this sounds to suburban independents.

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   01/08/12 09:10

Actually I find this bible thumper'sTalibanesque attitude more morally offensive than two loving homosexuals raising a child together. Also, I'm betting this theocrat doesn't do anything to help children in need such as adopt or foster care or donate his time or money. Just like Maggie Gallagher, it's attitudes like this jackwagons that make independents and moderates avoid the GOP like the plague.

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   01/08/12 09:13

Mr. Jeffery,

I know you are an ex-Pat Buchanan guy, but just out of curiosity as to how you would answer this question. Do you think government should give couples who are practicing Christians priority over couples who are of other religions or atheists or agnostics?

Let's say a married couple is of Indian heritage and are Hindus or Sikhs, should that couple be placed behind a couple who attend a Christian Church every Sunday?

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 Dave
   01/08/12 09:14

"Now, that may seem a harsh answer to people whose moral sensibilities have been formulated by habitual exposure to broadcast television networks. "

The author should find it interesting that it also may seem a harsh answer to people whose moral sensibilities have been formulated by habitual exposure to real life, gay people, adopted children, and things like "church."

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   01/08/12 09:23

What others me is the implication that the right-leaning media (which of course this guy would deny even exists) would never ask such a question because of some consensus moral position it would be bad form to ever question or venture beyond.

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   01/08/12 09:23

"Now, that may seem a harsh answer to people whose moral sensibilities have been formulated by habitual exposure to broadcast television networks."

Yes, the only reason anyone could ever disagree with you is because of the media. It's absolutely impossible for a person to rationally believe that a kid is better off with two loving parents than to be left bouncing around the foster system waiting for a wholesome heterosexual adoption that may never come.

On a related note, I think it's highly inappropriate for the government to allow non-Christians to adopt children. By letting these "families" raise their kids outside of Christ, the state is allowing the kids to be condemned to an eternity of hellfire and damnation. Anyone who disagrees is just brainwashed by the liberal media and the invidious First Amendment.

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Dr. Bloodmoney
   01/08/12 09:28

The Catholic church, 'defending the innocence of children'? Please.

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   01/08/12 09:45

Short summary of this very long blog post: "I hate gays, I'm freaked out by gays, and I want the government to marginalize them in every way possible."

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Zexufang1
   01/08/12 10:41

Same sex adoption is a by-product of the "defining deviancy downward" societal tug of war by the progressive liberal left.

Once legally justified and morally bludgeoned by the by government bulldozer – the dwindling opposition conservative clerics will weaken and crumble to religious indifference and submissive acceptance.

In short, we are living in a New Age & Faith: The Religion of the Unitarian Government Bureaucrat.
One Faith. One Government. One Truth.

Modern clerics & bureaucrats are easy prey to current fads and whims for they opt to believe the easy and tangible world as it is.
And why not – in their world - all fixed past historical truths and ideals are deemed passé.

Thus, here is a not-so-bold prediction for the next step:
ALL future modern adoptions will have to be divided 50/50 between hetero-sexual couples and gay couples.

After all, the post-modern clerics and bureaucrats (will) then say
“ONLY that can be fair”.

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Lysander
   01/08/12 11:14

Terence,

You obviously are not a good federalist. You seem to actually be a anti-gay statist. It isn't the federal government's role to determine the adoption laws of the several states. Your post here is an embarrasment to the National Review.

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   01/08/12 11:43

The stupidity of this post is breathtaking - it's stupid politically, it's stupid practically and it's stupid ideologically.

First, the politics of homosexual adoption couldn't be more clear: The overwhelming majority of Americans support it. Running a national campaign that includes outlawing gay adoption would be disastrous in the general election.

More importantly, we have more than 500K kids in foster-care right now. To suggest that these kids would be better off in group homes than in the home of someone like Ellen DeGeneres, is INSANE.

Furthermore, we have a nation-state - China - that permits the murder of unborn girls just because they're girls. Would Mr. Jeffrey prefer to see the thousands of Chinese girls that are saved by homosexual couples each year be aborted?

And finally, I would MUCH prefer to have gay couples adopt a child - a child that would otherwise grow-up in something less than an ideal environment absent that adoption - than have these gay couples procreate via surrogacy.

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