In Saturday’s Wall Street Journal, Charles Murray penned a true must-read essay previewing his new book, Coming Apart: The State of White America, 1960-2010. For those who follow Murray’s work closely (and you should), much of the essay’s raw information wasn’t surprising. Our class divisions are increasingly framed by differences in marriage and family status, with rich and poor inhabiting entirely separate cultures. Rich and poor live apart, watch different television shows, attend different movies, and eat different kinds of foods. Classic class-mixing institutions (like the military or public schools) divide even further as the rich shun the military and either shun public schools or live in wealthy enclaves where there’s little difference between public and private education.
While Murray recognizes the role of bad public policy in creating and sustaining these divisions, he rightly notes that better public policy won’t cure our culture. The cure — to the extent one exists — relies on the very institutions of marriage and family that are most beleaguered. The answer relies on individual choices, not just to model the right values but also to reach out, to leave the Disneyland of the cultural elite (the “superZIPs” of wealthy, influential suburbs) and engage. Here’s Murray in his own words:
The “something” that I have in mind has to be defined in terms of individual American families acting in their own interests and the interests of their children. Doing that in Fishtown requires support from outside. There remains a core of civic virtue and involvement in working-class America that could make headway against its problems if the people who are trying to do the right things get the reinforcement they need—not in the form of government assistance, but in validation of the values and standards they continue to uphold. The best thing that the new upper class can do to provide that reinforcement is to drop its condescending “nonjudgmentalism.” Married, educated people who work hard and conscientiously raise their kids shouldn’t hesitate to voice their disapproval of those who defy these norms. When it comes to marriage and the work ethic, the new upper class must start preaching what it practices.
Changing life in the SuperZIPs requires that members of the new upper class rethink their priorities. Here are some propositions that might guide them: Life sequestered from anybody not like yourself tends to be self-limiting. Places to live in which the people around you have no problems that need cooperative solutions tend to be sterile. America outside the enclaves of the new upper class is still a wonderful place, filled with smart, interesting, entertaining people. If you’re not part of that America, you’ve stripped yourself of much of what makes being American special.
Such priorities can be expressed in any number of familiar decisions: the neighborhood where you buy your next home, the next school that you choose for your children, what you tell them about the value and virtues of physical labor and military service, whether you become an active member of a religious congregation (and what kind you choose) and whether you become involved in the life of your community at a more meaningful level than charity events.
Isn’t this the true conservative solution? We can’t wave a magic wand in Washington, make the welfare state disappear, and replace it with smarter policies that incentivize just the right kinds of behavior. The welfare state is too entrenched, and we’re too limited in our own wisdom to even be sure that the policies we design will have the impact we want. Peers and parents influence people more than presidents and policies. If parents are absent and peers are aimless, what can a president do?
We can and should argue about the Florida primary and debate the Ryan budget and debt ceilings, but the importance of our voice in the process pales in comparison to the importance of the example and practice of our lives. Volunteer for military service, foster a child, mentor a struggling family, adopt an orphan — all of these actions (and that’s hardly an exclusive list) leave a legacy that outlasts our vote, our blogs, or our ideology.
Isn't this class warfare? Blaming the upper classes for the state of America? The culture is so sick and corrupted at this point it's hard to see a way out this mess. Removing the welfare state would force people to support each other and remove the "bedroom" community aspect of much of our "civic" life, but too many selfish people on the Left and Right do not want to take direct responsibility for the welfare of their community. It's too easy to smugly smile and think how much good you are doing by paying your taxes to some bloated machine that will do all the work for you.
Reply to this commentLinkReport AbuseThe welfare state, and particularly the housing projects that come with it, have created a downward spiral for all Americans. Those living in the projects are essentially sentenced to a life of crime, poverty, and misery and so are their children and their children's children. They grow up not knowing anything other than living off of the government.
Those not living in the projects, but living near the projects can look forward to a crumbling city center, over-burdened schools, over-burdened emergency services, and an end to the American ideal of a "hometown."
The dirty little secret, of course, is that more often than not so-called "city fathers" are the ones profiting from the housing projects because they manage the properties.
Talk about a "corrupt bargain."
Reply to this commentLinkReport AbuseThere is a lot of truth here, and White Flight, or more accurately "upwardly mobile flight" is a real phenomenon that, at this point, has destroyed every urban area in the United States with the possible exception of New York City. This isn't to blame those fleeing the welfare internment camps we used to call cities, they are only a symptom of the problem. You can still find very many functioning communities in the rural hinterland where the vast majority of the residents are very similarly situated in terms of income and culture.
Reply to this commentLinkReport AbuseFor what it's worth, this year Washington DC ceased to be majority African-American. This was widely touted by local politicians as a bad thing.
Reply to this commentLinkReport Abuse"White Flight, or more accurately "upwardly mobile flight" is a real phenomenon that, at this point, has destroyed every urban area in the United States with the possible exception of New York City."
You have this completely wrong. The "urban" underclass that moves in and brings crime, chaos, and plunging standards with them is what "has destroyed every urban area in the United States". Is it the middle and upper classes that builds these cities in the first place that's responsible for Detroit, which might as well be Sudan?
Are they just supposed to stay there and watch their neighborhoods turn into War Zones and keep their kids in schools where metal detectors and English as a Second Language are the new priorities? Nonsense.
Reply to this commentLinkReport AbuseYou are spot on. I grew up in a nice area of a rather large city that was in a state of continuous decay. My group of friends all attended Catholic school so we wouldn't have to deal with the public schools, and even though we all had families with deep roots in that city, we never truly felt part of the local fabric. And yes, the "city fathers" did push for and profit from the construction and maintenance of the clusters of high-rise projects that dotted various areas of the city. They also got the votes of the people who lived in those projects. Nevertheless, it's kind of insulting to insinuate that by virtue of a larger income, those that live in more affluent areas are necessarily the "better sort", and that living in close proximity such people is beneficial. It is well known, for instance, that many affluent students also come from broken homes, or dysfunctional families, use drugs, and exist almost from birth with a sense of entitlement that they are special and can do whatever they please without limits. They can count of overly indulgent parents to get them out of trouble, and are more likely to threaten lawsuits over even minor infractions. Also, and this is just a personal observation-less affluent students who do go to school with the more affluent tend to get into trouble trying to emulate the conduct and habits of their"superiors."
Reply to this commentLinkReport AbuseSo...some sort of noblesse oblige to send my kids to the not-so-good public schools, so they can model good behavior for the other kids? Is that what this boils down to?
Or to put my family in a less-safe neighborhood, so that our neighbors can see our securely married status and that'll, in the aggregate, make society better?
No thanks. As a conservative in the libertarian tradition, no, I don't have any obligation to subject my family to all that so that "society" in the aggregate might (or might not) be improved.
Reply to this commentLinkReport Abuse"mentor a struggling family", we were just trying to do that with a relative this past week. It is stunning to realize how kids raised by welfare parents have so little drive. It is almost like they come from another world. Bad week. Afraid we didn't do any good.
Welfare shuts people off. It makes them non-functional, and it makes their kids non-functional with no desire to do or achieve anything. They come with expectations and have no understanding of putting forth effort to achieve things.
Reply to this commentLinkReport AbuseI know what you mean, but you're doing the right thing. I'm an adjunct at a local career college where the vast majority of our students are either at/below poverty level, or are considered "low income," and getting students motivated is our biggest struggle.
But here and there, you see successes, and that matters more than you can imagine. I tell my wife, "My goal is simple: I just want to help students leave poverty behind." No Nobel laureates or rocket scientists, just people with a chance to leave poverty. Easier said than done, as you can probably attest. But good things can happen. To sound hopelessly sappy, you can't change the culture yourself, but you might change one family. (Sappy, right? But true.)
Reply to this commentLinkReport AbuseI appreciate the advice to preach what we practice (not that I'm rich, but I do live in a well-to-do and isolated area). This, however, is wishful sentimentality:
Life sequestered from anybody not like yourself tends to be self-limiting. Places to live in which the people around you have no problems that need cooperative solutions tend to be sterile.
No, those places are beautiful and wonderful. When I visit a friend who lives crammed up against her boorish neighbors, teenagers walk around wearing little and screaming obscenities. I fail to see how my children's lives would be enriched by living among them.
Personally, I believe that movies and ubiquitous TV -- can hardly get away from it even to eat a meal in a restaurant -- have corrupted all classes to the point where it's advisable to choose friends carefully and particularly to structure your life so that your children find good ones.
Reply to this commentLinkReport AbuseI can't believe I read this article which is striking, by a Romney supporter. Maybe Mr. French forgets who in this campaign has been talking about these issues. The Polish people have a great word for people like Mr. French , Balwan.
Reply to this commentLinkReport AbuseValues. It's all about values.
Values would solve 80% of our problems, especially including the financial ones.
Reply to this commentLinkReport AbuseYes, there can never be a big enough government to have a successful society without values. (Even if you don't believe, as I do, that our metastisizing government contributes to the decline of values.)
Reply to this commentLinkReport AbuseP.S. a great place to accomplish some of Murray's advice is church, where classes can mix without some of the things that induce the SuperZIPS not to.
Reply to this commentLinkReport AbuseAbsolutely true, although I think that works better for adults than for children. Church youth groups tend to be little better than the public school culture they draw from, and they have corrupted many a formerly innocent youth . The very best place we have found where people of all incomes converge is our home school support group. The marriage and work values are universal there, though, so the spill-over effect Murray is looking for isn't really applicable.
I can see asking young people to mix with people in the underclass while dipping in to do charity work, but I can't see placing them among such people for any length of time with some aim of improving culture; that would amount to exploiting our own.
Reply to this commentLinkReport Abuse"Isn’t this the true conservative solution?"
No. The conservative approach to this issue is to say, hey, people are responsible for themselves, so those people over there need to haul themselves out of the ghetto; I have no obligation to spend a single minute or a single dime on anything other than my own family. In fact, any attention at all to the class divide, even if it doesn't go beyond simple statements of the truth, is seen as "class warfare" by a certain element of the right.
This might, however, be the *social*-conservative solution, given that social conservatism is dedicated to interference with others' lives.
"Our class divisions are increasingly framed by differences in marriage and family status, with rich and poor inhabiting entirely separate cultures."
When *wasn't* this true? My parents grew up in areas that were lower-middle-class and almost exclusively white. Poor people lived somewhere else and went to different schools. So did rich people. So did black people of whatever economic stratum. Is this really so much worse today?
Reply to this commentLinkReport AbuseIt is very much worse and different today. Read Murray's piece. The social and cultural differences between rich and poor are much greater than they've ever been.
Reply to this commentLinkReport AbuseAnd each culture - as is it's right - has chosen their way knowing full well the consequences of their choice. Murray's piece is fantasyland - "it takes a village" nonsense. To put my family at risk so that we can "model" the proper behavior for ungrateful, entitled, angry, violent morons is pure nonsense. The vast majority of white Liberals have enough money to insulate themselves from the rest of the Democrat special interest groups and dependents, just like all Republicans aspire to.
Reply to this commentLinkReport AbuseI'm sure that is true, but I also think that if you grew up without much money (as I did), you find this suggestion of Murray's ridiculous: "If you’re not part of [America outside the enclaves of the new upper class], you’ve stripped yourself of much of what makes being American special."
Come on. There are nice people in all social classes, to be sure, but all the business about "sterility" and the suggestion that the lower classes as classes have something special to offer that the upper classes don't is silly. Let's just say it would be nice to find a way to help these people without sacrificing your own family and leave it at that.
Reply to this commentLinkReport AbuseIsn't this an extremely powerful argument against school vouchers? Since vouchers allow more people to self-segregate one of the very few cross-class institutions left (public schools).
Reply to this commentLinkReport Abuse