Dennis Prager’s Unbreakable Spirit

Dennis Prager attends the premiere of the film "No Safe Spaces" at TCL Chinese Theatre
Dennis Prager attends the premiere of the film “No Safe Spaces” at TCL Chinese Theatre in Hollywood, Calif., November 11, 2019. (Michael Tullberg/Getty Images)

His survival after a terrible accident one year ago is a summons — to continue defending faith, moral clarity, and the American value system. 

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His survival after a terrible accident one year ago is a summons — to continue defending faith, moral clarity, and the American value system. 

S ome days divide a life into before and after. For Dennis Prager, that day fell a year ago this month: November 12, 2024.

That morning, I woke to a text from his wife, Sue. Dennis had taken a terrible fall getting out of the shower and was in an ambulance.

“He’s going into surgery,” she said, when I called her later that day.

“Surgery?” I repeated. “How bad is it?”

“We may be dealing with a possible paralysis situation.”


“Really?”

“Really,” she said.

There was nothing to say. I let her go.

That night, he underwent spinal surgery. By morning, what we all feared was confirmed. Dennis was paralyzed from the shoulders down. One function, however, remained completely intact: his mind.

For decades, Dennis used that mind to elevate millions of people’s lives. Mine is one of them. As a college sophomore in 2020, I discovered Dennis through his media company, PragerU. His clarity and wisdom facilitated my journey from liberal to conservative, from skeptic to believer in God. After sending an over-the-transom email, I became his intern, and by graduation, his co-host. He became one of my dearest friends.

Dennis exhorted others to live by guiding principles: gratitude, resilience, and courage. Now in the quiet crucible of his own suffering, all he had taught was put to the test. Unable to move, and for months, to speak, Dennis could communicate only through a painstaking process of spelling out words, nodding or shaking his head as someone moved a pointer across letters of an alphabet chart.

Oftentimes, a cataclysmic event serves as a catalyst for spiritual transformation. We’ve heard the narratives: “This awful thing happened to So-and-So, but he’s stronger and more grateful because of it.”




After months in the hospital, the most remarkable observation about Dennis’s personality is not that it has changed — but that it hasn’t.

Almost a year later, Dennis — still navigating grueling, debilitating challenges — retains nearly the same spirit he had the day before the accident. To most, that may sound impossible, even exaggerated. Yet anyone who visits him knows it is true. He cracks jokes with his nurses and playfully interrogates them about their marital prospects. He watched his hometown Dodgers clinch the World Series. And with the assistance of his editor, he completed his latest book, set for February, about the necessity of belief in God.

I have felt as though I’ve been watching a soul put on trial — and with every compelling reason to falter, he has remained stalwart. The ethical and emotional accomplishment of this attitude is difficult to overstate. How is it possible?


The answer: Dennis spent his life forging the moral, spiritual, and psychological infrastructure to face this test.

Most postpone thinking seriously about tragedy until it arrives at their own doorstep. Dennis never did.

In his book Happiness Is a Serious Problem, published nearly 30 years ago, he devotes a chapter to “The Tragic Nature of Life.”

“I did not come to the subject of happiness from a particularly rosy outlook,” he wrote in 1998. “On the contrary, I come to it from a largely tragic view of life. I walk around amazed at my good fortune. Given how much unjust suffering and unhappiness there are, I am deeply grateful for, sometimes even perplexed by, how much misery I have been spared.”

Many today see suffering as an anomaly — an unwelcome intrusion — rather than a fundamental feature of life. Dennis, by contrast, deeply internalized the notion that such a calamity could befall him at any time.


This worldview bears fruits both in the present and retroactively. Dennis did not suffer from unmooring shock in the wake of his paralysis. And crucially, he spared himself of debilitating regret that many experience after a catastrophe: “If only I had enjoyed things when life was easier.” This is a man who visited all 50 states, traveled to 130 countries, hosted a decades-long, nationally syndicated talk radio show, wrote nearly a dozen books (and still counting!), and conducted a Haydn symphony at Disney Hall. As Erika Kirk observed of her late husband, Charlie: “He died with incomplete work, but not unfinished business.” The same is true of Dennis in the wake of his injury.

In staring down the road ahead, the menacing uncertainties and daily obstacles that confront a paralyzed person, Dennis has employed a rational strategy. “As I see it,” he told me earlier this month in the hospital, “I have three options: death, depression, or acceptance.”


There is a profound mental serenity one achieves in insulating himself from the temptation to dwell on “what might have been.” Many of us squander our days contemplating not our actual circumstances, but our preferred ones. In most cases, those alternative realities do not exist. It’s wiser to look squarely at the options before you, make a clear-eyed choice, and charge forward.

Considering the possibility that his condition may never improve, he said calmly, “I have everything I need in life in this hospital room. I have my family. I have my friends. I have my mind.”

Being trapped in one’s mind may feel like imprisonment. For Dennis, his mind remains a refuge where his freedom still lives.


Dennis’s injury last November, to many of us, appeared as the cruelest of accidents. A year later, another possibility lingers. Alongside Dennis’s injury, Jordan Peterson has fallen ill and Charlie Kirk was brutally assassinated. These three men, individually and together, have brought more people to God — and to truth, beauty, and goodness — than perhaps any others of their generation.

I once raised a possible explanation with Dennis: spiritual warfare. “Perhaps the enemy knew he could not corrupt your character,” I said, “so he tried to target your greatest vulnerability: your physical state.”

It might sound callous to suggest such a thing to someone so afflicted. Yet Dennis, even from his hospital bed, is invigorated by profound questions.

“Maybe,” I continued, “the enemy struck at you with a force proportional to the damage you’ve done to him.”




He took it in, nodding. “That very well could be the case.”

If this suffering is a cosmic assault, it confirms the scale of the good he has done. Dennis never expected to be immune from life’s tragedies. But he also never expected spiritual protection for his goodness or gratitude. Those who live righteously come to expect hardship.

Seen this way, his survival is a summons — to continue defending faith, moral clarity, and the American value system.

For those fortunate to spend time with him, Dennis sustains us with his calm stoicism, refusal of victimhood, and the humor that has always defined him. His presence lives in the unshakable core of conviction and integrity that he built within himself. That is where he remains — and where we will always find him.

This is when you see, without question, whether someone truly practices what they preach.


His stillness illuminates his wisdom more brightly than motion ever could.

Julie Hartman co-hosted a show with Dennis Prager for two and a half years, Dennis and Julie, and served as the standing guest host for the Salem Media Group’s nationally syndicated talk radio shows.
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