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A Mother’s Light

“Maybe it would be easier to call this a mistake and just resume life as usual. I could go to work, go to happy hour, go to sleep–pretend it never happened. But, it did. My baby did happen and he’s not a mistake.”

In 2007, a mother wrote this — on Glamour’s website — explaining that: “The unknown is a powerful, beautiful thing–it launches me into every new day.” And that it was an essay by Maya Angelou that helped change her life.

The essay, attributed to Family Circle magazine, said in part:

“When I was 16, a boy in high school evinced interest in me, so I had sex with him — just once. And after I came out of that room, I thought, Is that all there is to it? My goodness, I’ll never do that again! Then, when I found out I was pregnant, I went to the boy and asked him for help, but he said it wasn’t his baby and he didn’t want any part of it.

I was scared to pieces. Back then, if you had money, there were some girls who got abortions, but I couldn’t deal with that idea. Oh, no. No. I knew there was somebody inside me. So I decided to keep the baby.

Angelou went on to write about her family’s support and shared 

I’m telling you that the best decision I ever made was keeping that baby! Yes, absolutely. Guy was a delight from the start — so good, so bright, and I can’t imagine my life without him.

At 17 I got a job as a cook and later as a nightclub waitress. I found a room with cooking privileges, because I was a woman with a baby and needed my own place. My mother, who had a 14-room house, looked at me as if I was crazy! She said, “Remember this: You can always come home.” She kept that door open. And every time life kicked me in the belly, I would go home for a few weeks.

I struggled, sure. We lived hand-to-mouth, but it was really heart-to-hand. Guy had love and laughter and a lot of good reading and poetry as a child. Having my son brought out the best in me and enlarged my life. Whatever he missed, he himself is a great father today. He was once asked what it was like growing up in Maya Angelou’s shadow, and he said, “I always thought I was in her light.”

Years later, when I was married, I wanted to have more children, but I couldn’t conceive. Isn’t it wonderful that I had a child at 16? Praise God!”

R.I.P.

And praise God for her choice. May her witness to courage and perseverance in love continue to help change lives, giving mothers (and fathers) inspiration.

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