A lot of conservatives, including me, tend to think that a too-romantic conception of marriage has reduced its stability. But even I can’t go as far as Corinne Colbert in the anti-romantic direction:
My husband is not my best friend. He doesn’t complete me. In fact, he can be a self-absorbed jerk. We’re nearly polar opposites: He’s a lifetime member of the NRA who doesn’t care for journalists, and I’m a lifelong liberal with a journalism degree. On the other hand, he doesn’t beat or emotionally abuse me. He doesn’t drink or chase other women. He’s a good provider. So I’m sticking with him.
Some people would call that “settling,” like it’s a bad thing. But I believe in settling.