John and Andrew, I’ve been tied up and only just got to your weekend gay-marriage exchange on The Corner. I’ll be writing much more on all these questions after Massachusetts acts. In the meantime, if you’re interested, you might want to catch our old “gay-marriage debate” from the summer of 2001. It reads from the bottom up. I address some of your questions, particularly in the “Point of No Return” and “Code of Honor” pieces from that debate, but the whole debate is relevant.