Christmas Pleads with Us: What Are We Doing for Families?

A family — a baby — is at the heart of it. That may be obvious, and yet it challenges.

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A father stands with his daughter in front of a nativity scene during morning Christmas mass at Zagreb’s Roman Catholic cathedral in 2009.

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A baby. A mother. A father. They are at the heart of the season we are in. And, yet, as Mary Eberstadt points out in her book How the West Really Lost God, all those elements seem foreign to many who did not grow up with a father. Or a mother. And, of course, those who do not have a baby for reasons of grueling inability, or excruciating loss, or fear, or actual choice. Her point is an acknowledgement of reality. And a point of reflection and encounter. Maybe especially in our post–Roe v. Wade world.

One Saturday morning not too long ago, a young woman from a pro-abortion group in New York City recognized me at a pro-life prayer vigil across from the flagship Planned Parenthood clinic there. She screamed to my face, “Kathryn Jean Lopez, what are you going to blame on abortion today?” I confess, I smiled. I thought, “She must actually read me!” If I am not just preaching to a choir, writing satisfies some of my deepest desires. And I do believe that abortion creates more immiseration than we know.

KL

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Kathryn Jean Lopez

Kathryn Jean Lopez is a senior fellow at the National Review Institute and the religion editor of National Review. Sign up for her weekly newsletter here. She is the author of A Year with the Mystics: Visionary Wisdom for Daily Living.

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