Well, this is shameful.

Palliative care isnโ€™t the same thing at all as assisting suicide. Yet, the Journal of Palliative Care has an article by assisted suicide promoters on the โ€œclinical criteriaโ€ for a doctor prescribing poison to a patient.

Talk about mutating hospice into hemlock!

And get this, the article, by three prominent academic bioethicists, promotes what I call โ€œvalidated suicide.โ€ From the article:

It usually is a good idea for family members or friends to be with the patient at the time of ingestion to provide comfort. Indeed, a gathering of family and friends can be a rich experience for all.

No, it is a very bad idea. As I noted here, agreeing to attend such gatherings send an unintentional but insidious message:

Supporting anotherโ€™s self-destruction is not a compassionateโ€”or morally neutralโ€”act. To the contrary, attending a suicide sends an unintentional but clear message to the suicidal person: Yes, your life is no longer worth living; you are a burden; you are better off dead (and weโ€™re better off with you dead, too).

Be that as it may, dear readers, you may one day be asked to RSVP to a suicide going away party. I suggest:

If you ever receive such an invitation, send your unequivocal refusal and offer to help the sufferer find a better way forward. That kind of compassionate engagement and noncooperation with the culture of death will come at some risk.
But saying no will protect you from moral complicity in a deathโ€”and it could be the act that dissuades your loved one from taking a terrible and irrevocable course.

Sigh. Maybe Iโ€™m just a moral atavist. But attending a suicide has enormous moral consequences, and could be the difference between someone not doing the deed and thinking the time really has come to go.