The Guidelines Are Changing. My Body Never Will

For detransitioners like me, the change in medical recommendations regarding gender-affirming care is too late.

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Left: Demonstrators gather for a rally in support of trans youth at Seattle Children’s hospital in Seattle, Wash., February 8, 2025. Right: Screengrab of Claire Abernathy in a video posted April 28, 2025.

David Ryder/Reuters, Screenshot via Independent Women/YouTube

As a minor, I felt uncomfortable in my own body, and when I consulted doctors, they assured me that transitioning was the right answer. My therapist even told my mom that if she didn’t proceed with affirming me, I would most likely become suicidal and severely depressed. So when I was barely a teenager, I underwent gender-transition treatments, including a double mastectomy, that would ultimately leave me with no breasts and a slew of symptoms that would haunt me even after my decision to detransition.

This week, the American Society of Plastic Surgeons announced that gender surgeries on minors should not be common practice, and the American Medical Association released a half-baked statement recommending against surgical interference while continuing to support other forms of so-called “gender-affirming care.” While this inches toward what I and other detransitioners want for future generations, this major announcement has provoked some complicated feelings in me.

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Claire Abernathy

Claire Abernathy is an Independent Women ambassador and detransitioner. Claire and her mother’s story was told together for the first time through Independent Women’s Features’ “Identity Crisis” series.

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