I had Bravo’s Boy Meets Boy on tonight (right after Queer Eye for the Straight Guy). Unless I am missing something, I came away from the first episode of the gay reality dating show with this message: It’s not so much about the “leading man” finding his “mate” as much as it is about mainstreaming gay dating and making non-gays understand what it is like being in the closet (the series has some of the potential matches closeted heterosexuals).