A child died. I’ll say even it if it can’t be said in the NYTimes Mag.

It is an added sadness that this couple was unable to spend any time with their child, presumably because of a termination (choice?), as the NYTimes Mag would put it, but the why is unclear. I’m reminded of Rick and Karen Santorum’s. blessed two hours with their premature Gabriel

Dawn Eden points to some parents who were in similar situations as the NYTimes Mag couple, but who got to meet their babies, and whose short time with their children was a treasured lifetime:

I feel very blessed to be Mary Elizabeth’s mother. I always knew that my baby needed me to protect her and to be her voice from the time that she was conceived. I am so very thankful that I was able to hold her and see her beautiful face. The 34 hours that we had with her will forever be etched in my mind as a very special time with a very special little girl. I know that my daughter is safe and is in heaven now. I miss her terribly and would give anything to have her here with me. I feel comfort in knowing that one day I will hold her again in heaven. Mary Elizabeth taught me so much about love, being humble, and thankful in all things.