I am not sure I want presidential candidates weighing in on matters of etiquette, either, but frankly Megyn Kelly’s success in getting props as a journalist by attacking Huckabee on something so trivial is unattractive on so many fronts. I don’t want men swearing at me in the workplace, and of course I don’t particularly like it in women either. (It is less scary when women do it of course but also more unpleasant.) Customs differ in different places. But in general, workplaces where this happens a lot aren’t very attractive to women.