From a reader:

Jonah,
Your Socratic-like question about sex in a holodeck brings up other questions.
1. Will they teach holographic sex-ed in school?
2. When someone asks “how many people have you slept with” will you have to do the “finger quotes” and say, “what do you mean by ‘people’ “?
3. Will the programmers of the holographic women be women themselves, thereby requiring us to cuddle with our hologram afterwards?
and lastly…
4. Will people giggle every time someone innocently asks you to “turn on your hologram”