Well, if you’re saying that Ally McBeal is a nitwit, you’ll get no argument from me. But these are real people (not Ally, I mean my friend’s employee & daughter) with a problem I can’t fathom. I am even less able to fathom it when I recall the occasional emails I get from guys contemplating the Asian-bride websites & asking me if it’s a good idea. (Answer: 1 Corinthians 7.ix.)