In his May Diary today, John Derbyshire is quite right that the realities of IVF today make it a much a harder, emotional debate to haveโ€“weโ€™re not talking about moral theories, weโ€™re talking about human lives: lively toddlers, sick parentsโ€ฆ(and, yes, frozen embryos). But the fact that there are, indeed, โ€œdecent, thoughtful, well-educated peopleโ€ intimately involved with assisted reproduction, starting families with its assistanceโ€“many of whom โ€œmust have created 75 embryos to get the two children we are now raisingโ€โ€“should, I would think, make us think even longer and harder before we jump into the next point of no return.