I should have mentioned this first time around, but I feel so small doing it after Rush did it โ€” giving credit to our K-Lo, who has been THE stalwart on this issue. In this as in everything else, weโ€™re lucky to have her.

Anyway, Kathrynโ€™s absolutely right. No oneโ€™s interest is prejudiced by a โ€œnoโ€ vote that is just saying: โ€œHey, donโ€™t try to get over on me. Tell me straight what this is about.l Iโ€™ll give you my respectful attention, but no tricks please.โ€

If they need tricks to sell you, then theyโ€™re sellinโ€™ snake-oil โ€ฆ and you should tell โ€˜em to pound sand on principle.