This is a good point, this last sentence:

It’s been almost ten years since my father died. He had a feeding tube
because of a tracheotomy caused by cancer in the throat (L.S.M.F.T). I did
not allow him to “dehydrate to death” nor would I have starved him. He
went quietly to the Kingdom of God during his sleep after a continuous
decline. I think the Dr’s a little hypersensitive but given his job and
what he sees daily I would be too.

E-mail makes one quicker to be hypersensitive, too, I know from experience!