A male reader who signed off as someone “who is NOT a spectator in this abortion mess” e-mailed in the wee hours in response to the follow-up on the Romanian 66-year-old fertility-treated new mother: “Everyone regrets their abortions, even the men involved.” If it’s not self-conscious regret, there’s something missing/hurting. Which is part of the reason that the Women Deserve Better campaign is so important. And, yes, men should not be forgotten either. One dead, multiple victims.