Miss Bleedingheart’s Advice

Dear Miss Bleedingheart,

I’m in love with a man who doesn’t love me. I give him money and things, but he says if he chooses me, this other girl, who hates me, might not understand. This other girl is not a nice girl at all, but this man (he has such a fine mind and says such nice things about things!) says I shouldn’t judge her because we should try to see both sides of a question.